winging it.

stephanie spencer

A plane can’t Fly Backward…

And neither should we. As I’ve been reflecting over the last decade at the start of this new one, I realized my worst periods were when I felt like I was stagnating. And my best periods were when I felt like I was really working towards something, even if I wasn’t actually “achieving” anything concrete. Now that I have a decade of adulting under my belt, I know that it’s easier for me to stagnate than I’d like to admit. I’ve also learned that it’s very easy for me to light a fire under my ass. As soon as I agree to do something, you better believe I’m gonna get that shit DONE. I’ve noticed that I don’t commit to much when I’m in slow mode. It’s like my subconscious knows the fire isn’t lit and the stuff isn’t going to get done, so I don’t even bother to agree to it. Not good. I’ve decided to do more journaling and goal setting for the next decade. And I’d like to do it with friends! It’s so much easier to stick to your guns and have fun doing it if your besties are by your side. I’ve also decided to let GO of what I don’t need. Things and thoughts. Can you tell I’ve been reading Marie Kondo? I’m in the process of moving into a new apartment and I can’t wait to fill this new space with only things I love. And I can’t wait to live the life that I’m creating along with it. Here’s to this decade being the best one yet!

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